Written 11 May 2011,
Rewritten April 2019
This is a life lesson, which I am reluctant to
take, but happy to talk about.
There was one who was
famous for the number of thingsHe forgot when he entered the ship
His umbrella, his watch, all his jewels and rings
and the clothes he had brought for the trip.
He had forty-two boxes, all carefully packed
with his name painted clearly on each
but, since he omitted the fact
they were all left behind on the beach
The loss of his
clothes hardly mattered because
He had seven coats on when he came
With three pair of boots - but the worst of it was,
He had wholly forgotten his name
From 'The Hunting of
the Snark' by Lewis CarrollHe had seven coats on when he came
With three pair of boots - but the worst of it was,
He had wholly forgotten his name
Although this is not a sermon or
spiritual lesson, I need to quote from Scripture: Rev 3:17 Because thou say, I am rich, and increased with goods, and
have need of nothing; and know not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and
poor, and blind, and naked:
I recently wrote an article on
Buddhism, and something in it struck me as being important, but not for the
same reason Siddhartha Gautama meant.
Buddhism has this to teach: Life is suffering and it may be punctuated
by brief moments of happiness. All things are transient and our ceaseless
attempts to grasp at these transient things traps us in an endless cycle of
suffering. We can release ourselves from this treadmill of suffering, if we
cease to grasp at what is not there....
It is this, it is this that I dread
... words from the poem quoted above.
The reference to The Hunting of the
Snark is quite appropriate here as the poem tells the story of how a party set
out to hunt a Snark, and Snarks, of course, do not exist. Some Snarks have this
peculiar property: The person who sees it first, will just vanish away without
any sound and his body will nowhere be found, much like atheists when they die.
So it is an excellent poetical story and metaphor to intertwine with the
hogwash the Buddha teaches.
The quest of the Buddha was to reach
Nirvana, which is a state where he does not exist anymore, and can therefore
not feel the suffering anymore. This state of course is as easy to reach as it
is to find a Snark.
Look around you. How many things do
you have? Probably a lot. Which of those do you really need? Probably only a
few, and maybe not even one of them. And this is the dilemma we sit with. They
are our suffering that we have brought upon ourselves, and chances are that we
will still have them even if we do not exist anymore.
So we will offload it onto our
relatives as their inheritance. They will in turn keep it for a while and then
phone a charity to collect it if they are not too ashamed to do that.
It is clear that I am not talking
about vital things, but those things we can do without. Vital things? What is
that? I would think that only bread and water are vital things.
And why are they our suffering?
Think of the energy you and I expend
on the ownership of a single article. We have to plan for it, read reviews
about it, look for the best deal on it, borrow the money to buy it or work that
overtime, deprive ourselves of essential things that we do not realise we need,
go to the shop and buy it or order it and wait for months to receive it,
transport it home or borrow someone's truck if its big, find a place for it to
stand in our houses, remove the useless things which occupy that place now,
learn how to use it and try to understand these manuals written in another
language and translated directly so that it becomes totally irrational, clean
it or around it, maintain it, insure it, try not to break it, fix it when it is
broken, getting parts for it now that it is outdated and has been discontinued,
pay someone to fix it poorly, so that we can call them back again and again to
fatten their purses, make regular payments on it and explain to the shop or
bank why you can't make this month's instalment, dispose of it after finding
out that nobody wants it now.
Well this is for only one item -
what about the hundreds of other items you and I have and want.
While writing this, I have specially
gone to my large garage, specially built to store useless things and which is
almost fully packed, and made this list. I did not get too far as it was futile
to write up these type of things - but here are the first few:
·
Broom - without any brushes.
·
Banana leaves - used for a flower
arrangement five years ago.· Curtain rails - old type - inherited 18 years ago - will never use.
· Broken booster pump - got broken in first month, but was not covered by guarantee, because the fine prints says that type of breaks are not covered.
· Cans of paint - from 20L, 5L, 1L - many of them - used to repaint the house 5 years ago - cannot open most, but opened two - paint dry.
· Floor mats of a car I sold 7 years ago.
· Disused TV projector stand - projector was stolen in a burglary.
· Brick samples - for a new house I wanted to build some 4 years ago - they do not make these bricks anymore.
· Tyre and rim. I had to keep it to show it to the insurance assessor, but he never turned up to inspect it.
· Brand new boxes for computers, printers etc. Had to keep them to return the products in the state they were packed in, should they break within 7 days. The products have broken in the meantime after years of service.
· Handbook for generator. The generator was returned for a refund after two years' ownership, as it spent 20 of the 24 months in the workshop - although I returned 43 times to the shop to hear whether it had been fixed. I can give you the shop's name if you need it, but nobody asked.
· Scanners hit by lightning - 2 of these. I do not think they will revive themselves and it is cheaper to buy them than to fix them.
· Big plan cabinet - not used for 13 years - all my drawings are digital now.
· First aid kit - empty.
· School suitcase - no, not my kids' ones - my wife's one of 50 years ago.
WOW!
I am too embarrassed to go into my
house for an inventory of all the vital things we have bought over the years.
Maybe I will try that someday.
I can already think of over a
hundred items I would throw away, if only my wife would allow me.
So what can we do? There are four
scenarios.
·
I will stay here and never use 99%
of those items. It can become part of my inheritance, but it will irritate and
frustrate me for the rest of my life, stumbling over them trying to find
something I knew I had for 20 years, but chucked away last week.
·
I will emigrate one day and leave 99%
of them behind, because I do not really need them or it is too expensive to
transport.· I will loose most of it in a fire and only try and save the vital ones and be glad the rest have burned.
· I might move into a smaller house or apartment now that the kids are out of the house and with the lower pension I now have.
What shall I take along? Which are
the ones I might save? You know, on reflection, I do not think anything. I
could do with a new outfit. We can repeat the Buddha's teaching above and just
replace toil, suffering and responsibility with 'things in our backyard'.
In fact, we will enjoy ourselves so
much more, if we can travel lightly to wherever we wish to, without arranging
for or worrying about that cat, dog or parakeet. And we can do with that cash,
because we do not have to buy these things we do not need.
I can also quote from a favourite
aviation writer of mine - A Gift of Wings by Richard Bach:
An old guru surely must have said it to a disciple ten thousand years
ago: "You know Sam, there will never live anyone who will ever own
anything more than his own thoughts. Not people, not places, not things will we
ever keep for possessions through vast times. Walk a little while with them we
can, but soon or late we will each take our own possession - what we have
learned, how we think - and go separately around this planet.
Afterthought: I would for sure have
become a Minimalist, had I not come to love to be a Maximalist so dearly. Yes,
yes, I know more is never enough, but for me more is never too little as well.
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