Marriage – or Forward to the Past – by P.K.
Odendaal – December 2015
Whether it
is forward to the past or back the future, I do not really know or care,
because what is important is that we do not want to go here – a place we call
today. I mean with regard to marriage, the family, education and cultural and
social affairs. We have seen enough and we have had enough. Who will save us
from ourselves?
When I
wrote A Parody on Marriage, there were just too many questions, idiosyncrasies,
pretension and contradictions to keep a rational person sane in the dichotomies
which developed from the conclusions. So, I had to rethink and relive the whole
thing. What was clear, however, was that the way of choosing a spouse today was
just not working anymore and was leading us nowhere, if such a destination
could be found at all. In fact, the remedies we are applying to save our
marriages are exactly those which destroy it.